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Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 06:41 PM
ok, hypothetically speaking.....

i may have just been on my way back to my room from my mates in my halls (for those that dont know im student at uni, and im in halls/dorms/whatever) and on my way past another friends door and i may have heard him....entertaining a female guest that was not his girlfriend (not somethin i wanted to hear btw but the walls are considerably thinner than the norm here). his girlfriend is also a friend of mine. this hypothetical situation could hypothetically land me well and truely in the crap. all those with experience in the field, and dogooders with opinions on the subject please forward advice on ignoring this or not.

......should the situation arise of course...

Tyrion
11-06-2004, 06:49 PM
Hypothetically speaking, what one should do is leave the entire mess alone. One should not become involved into the problem, as that could cause much more harm than good to everyone, and you have friends to lose no matter what happens in the end. But that situation is very unlikely to happen, you'd have to had aquired the ire of a very vengful God to have that happen to you...

ZBomber
11-06-2004, 06:54 PM
Talk to you friend, but don't tell his g/f.... You'd get both of them to hate you if you told the g/f.

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 06:54 PM
posted by Tyrion
But that situation is very unlikely to happen, you'd have to had aquired the ire of a very vengful God to have that happen to you...

i annoyed god this week by destroying some door to door christian literature and nailing it to my door to drive away other evangelists so god might be a little vengeful.....

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 06:56 PM
Originally posted by ZBomber
Talk to you friend, but don't tell his g/f.... You'd get both of them to hate you if you told the g/f.

yes i discovered that doesnt go down well some years ago when i framed someone for cheating....

eerrrr i mean, something less reprehensible......

Spider AL
11-06-2004, 07:00 PM
Hypothetically speaking, the only moral thing to do is to recommend to your friend that he tell his girlfriend the truth, himself. It's their business, so let them sort it out between them.

Also, it's good to remember that it doesn't matter who hates you. In ten years time, you want to be able to look back on this hypothetical situation and say: "I made the right choice. The strong choice. I was not a wiener."

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 07:03 PM
Originally posted by Spider AL
Hypothetically speaking, the only moral thing to do is to recommend to your friend that he tell his girlfriend the truth, himself. It's their business, so let them sort it out between them.

Also, it's good to remember that it doesn't matter who hates you. In ten years time, you want to be able to look back on this hypothetical situation and say: "I made the right choice. The strong choice. I was not a wiener."

indeed. ive never been a moral person in these kind of circumstances though. if i didnt like both of them id probably be an ass about it but in this case ill do the nice thing

IG-64
11-06-2004, 07:06 PM
I agree with the others: consult the friend, don't tell the gf.

Kain
11-06-2004, 07:08 PM
Tell the guy you know and give him a chance to tell his g/f. If he doesn't, threaten to tell the g/f.

Spider AL
11-06-2004, 07:14 PM
If he doesn't, threaten to tell the g/f.Hmm, not sure I'd do that myself, wouldn't be my place. However, if he DIDN'T tell his g/f, I wouldn't consider him a friend.

Kain
11-06-2004, 07:15 PM
Originally posted by Spider AL
Hmm, not sure I'd do that myself, wouldn't be my place. However, if he DIDN'T tell his g/f, I wouldn't consider him a friend.

Ah true, but blackmail is such a powerful tool.

Spider AL
11-06-2004, 07:17 PM
Ah true, but blackmail is such a powerful tool.It's also on the way to being as amoral as cheating on someone. :p

Kain
11-06-2004, 07:26 PM
Originally posted by Spider AL
It's also on the way to being as amoral as cheating on someone. :p

Meh, every great accomplishment is done using a few less-than-moral tactics.

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 07:29 PM
i have to say the threatening thing is something that i would do and in this situation if he doesnt go for the reasonable route prolly will do.

hypothetically of course

Spider AL
11-06-2004, 07:31 PM
Meh, every great accomplishment is done using a few less-than-moral tactics.

Buddha disagrees.

Buddha spank.

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 07:32 PM
Originally posted by Spider AL
Buddha disagrees.

Buddha spank.

what did Buddha ever accomplish :D

Spider AL
11-06-2004, 07:33 PM
His most noteworthy, not to mention community-minded accomplishment, was to spank Kain.

Leper Messiah
11-06-2004, 07:34 PM
Originally posted by Spider AL
His most noteworthy, not to mention community-minded accomplishment, was to spank Kain.

fear that man :D

jon_hill987
11-07-2004, 12:56 PM
This isn't hypothetical is it?

well hypotheticly speaking, you should threaten to tell his girlfriend, if he dosn't end it or tell her first.

thats what happens on telly anyway.

weiderudare
11-07-2004, 01:10 PM
Tell the friend... If he is stupid enough not to tell the g/f, blech!

Jed
11-07-2004, 02:08 PM
Originally posted by Kain
Tell the guy you know and give him a chance to tell his g/f. If he doesn't, threaten to tell the g/f.

What he said.

Only if he doesn't tell the g/f, don't blackmail him with it. Actually tell her.

She deserves to know.

Spider AL
11-07-2004, 02:45 PM
She deserves to know.Ah, but what if she's cheating on him too? Then you've given her the advantage. :D

weiderudare
11-07-2004, 02:48 PM
spider al has a point

put up webcams in both their rooms and monitor. only way to be sure

Spider AL
11-07-2004, 02:50 PM
put up webcams in both their rooms and monitor. only way to be sureI like the way you think, man.

Leper Messiah
11-07-2004, 03:27 PM
evil thinking, a quasi-metal version of the imperial march playing, its all good :D