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SharaFett
07-18-2002, 12:30 PM
i have a girl coming over this weekend. her family and our family have been close for a while. she hinted that she wants us to get closer to each other than friends. while my parents and her parents go out to dinner on saturday night, i'll be alone with her. i was wondering, what type of music should i use (give me song name, artist, ect) for the mood? i'm looking particularily for makeout music. how else can i improve the setting?

obi
07-18-2002, 12:32 PM
"Dual of the fates" by Johnathon Williams usually works.........:rolleyes:

I know your not serious..............

Kyth'emos
07-18-2002, 12:33 PM
If I were you I wouldn't take anything on this thread seriously, but then I wouldn't have asked a bunch of strangers how to get a chick to makeout with me either.... :rolleyes:

I think it would depend on what she likes, but then I am by no means an expert in matters which pertain to social interaction since I genrally avoid it when possible with all people except one.

SharaFett
07-18-2002, 12:35 PM
...a simple "no, i do not know of any good songs to help dampen the mood" would have been nice. . .

Zindell
07-18-2002, 12:37 PM
Don't you have actual friends you can ask about this, I mean I look at this post and think, How old is this guy and why cant he make girls make out with him.

Kyth'emos
07-18-2002, 12:39 PM
Originally posted by SharaFett
...a simple "no, i do not know of any good songs to help dampen the mood" would have been nice. . .

Ask a stupid question, get a smart ass answer.:rolleyes:

Dissectional
07-18-2002, 12:41 PM
Me, I usually put on some ICP, Static X, Tool, or A Perfect circle. THat is the best music to shag to.

:naughty:

Cyris
07-18-2002, 12:42 PM
Id play some porno music. Itd get her in the mood. Then u might even be able to boink her.... Unless shes ugly. If shes ugly boot her right now before she makes her move. Thats what i say. HOt = BOINk HEr, NOt = KICk HEr OUt

obi
07-18-2002, 12:44 PM
*begin prayer*

God, please send us a mod, a noble mod, that will close this thread, and let no one else reply.

Amen

*end prayer*

SharaFett
07-18-2002, 12:46 PM
...of course i'd ask my friends...i just wanted to see what everyone in this forum says. they gave me some instrumental songs of joe sattrionni and these spanish beats that were played in MI:2...i'll take a hint i wont try to make conversation...

-there's no such thing as a stupid question- just inquisitive idiots. i'm not an idiot.

Yoda_623
07-18-2002, 12:49 PM
Marvin Gaye "Lets Get It On" :D

SharaFett
07-18-2002, 12:50 PM
BINGO- there's one i didnt think of

Kyth'emos
07-18-2002, 12:57 PM
Originally posted by SharaFett


-there's no such thing as a stupid question- just inquisitive idiots. i'm not an idiot.

Thats BS, either the part about you not being an idiot or the part about there being no stupid questions.

BTW Obi you spelled prayer wrong.

Redwing
07-18-2002, 12:59 PM
I dunno ^^;;

You have other friends of the female gender, right? Ask them ^_^

edit: Prrrfft, you people reply too fast ^_^

obi
07-18-2002, 01:00 PM
Originally posted by Kyth'emos



BTW Obi you spelled prayer wrong.

NO I didn't. You are an idiot.

:D

Kyth'emos
07-18-2002, 01:02 PM
Well I don't give a damn how you spell prayer, cause I am not christien. :D

Darth Talliusc
07-18-2002, 01:03 PM
ANYTHING by barry manalow, but chicks (in my short experience) dont like to hear that guys listen to barry manalow, so say its your parents and that the cd player is busted so you cant listen to anything else....... hasnt worked for me yet but maybe you will have better luck.

SharaFett
07-18-2002, 01:04 PM
no...i've asked a bunch of people but that's not my point.

the point IS i wanted to start a topic in th OT forum...

**sigh**:mad: :mad:

Darth Talliusc
07-18-2002, 01:14 PM
wait your point is that you wanted to start a topic? what in the.... oh im so confused, and you have ENTIRELY too much time on your hands

Kurgan
07-18-2002, 01:24 PM
No offense, but you're asking the same people who can't agree on whether the backstab/DFA is 1337 or just BS...

This isn't the dating game show!!

Seriously, if you want my advice, don't do anything you may live to regret (ie: disease, teen pregnancy, ruined friendship). Take it slow, ask lots of questions, and take notes. Talk to people who you consider to have had successful relationships.

I guess that's a problem we all had as kids... we asked our PEERS about these things, when in reality we should have asked the elder generation. After all, it's hard to see the future when you yourself are making the same decisions, with the same level of knowledge. Get where I'm coming from?

If it doesn't work out, don't worry, you'll live through it. Don't get desperate worrying you won't get somebody, after all, consider your relatives and neighbors, surely you know some people who are downright ugly, fat, annoying, etc. how many of them have relationships? Plenty! It's not likely they just got that way yesterday, so chances are even they were able to make things work out. So use your head, you can take risks, but be prepared to live with the consequences.

Goten583
07-18-2002, 01:35 PM
Party Boy- from MTV Jackass
10 min. long, nuff to get yourself going.:D ;)

JediGhost[SITH]
07-18-2002, 01:37 PM
"Staying Alive" - Beegees

Heh..

Clem
07-18-2002, 10:52 PM
ever thought about asking a girl?

ull have trouble finding 1 here

or ... for that matter ne1 with a mental age above 12 (me included :))

Darth Knight
07-18-2002, 11:00 PM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
or ... for that matter ne1 with a mental age above 12 (me included :))

mental age there is a ton of people that are like 11 years old i mean 11 years old that is just way to young i mean do they even understand some of these conversations

Divine Spirit
07-18-2002, 11:05 PM
Slipknot duh! :D


being serious now, i have two words for you:

Soft Jazz

That music is smooth and sensual!

obi
07-18-2002, 11:16 PM
He's not going to use Dual of the Fates?

:(

so what if it never worked for me...............

Imperial March didn't eather...........

:(

Tyrion
07-18-2002, 11:20 PM
Originally posted by Darth Knight


mental age there is a ton of people that are like 11 years old i mean 11 years old that is just way to young i mean do they even understand some of these conversations

*cough*cough*me*cough*cough*

:D

Reb Starblazer
07-19-2002, 12:31 AM
I gotta agree with Kurgan on this. Don't do anything stupid. Supposedly girls like guys that talk to them, that treat them special, treat them like a person instead of a sex object or just someone to make out with*hint*hint* If she wants to make out with you, it'll happen. If not, work towards something, a better friendship, maybe a relationship. But if it's going to happen, it'll happen. Well, it'll happen with a bit of help and push from the two of you. Things like that just don't happen on their own. But don't take things too far, or you will end up with nothing(and I don't mean that as in getting some, I mean you may lose your chance with her completely) And once again, as Kurgan said, ask questions. Get to know her, let her get to know you. That's the best start any relationship can have. And if you do go, ahem, "all the way" don't do anything stupid! You don't go out in the the rain without a raincoat now do you? You know what I mean.
And if you're wondering why I said supposedly, it's because I'm not a girl, I don't know these things for sure. Women are one of the great mysteries of life, perhaps that's why they're so damn interesting:D

As for music, I agree with Divine Spirit, Jazz is great. Also, try some classical. Maybe even "Across the Stars":p It's not called "love theme" for nothing you know:D

Camus
07-19-2002, 12:40 AM
Originally posted by obi-wan13
He's not going to use Dual of the Fates?

:(

so what if it never worked for me...............

Imperial March didn't eather...........

:(


You people are sad... :( If You want some play the music they listen too... pop... :barf: I know it works... trust me... :S I have a g/f everytime I want to get close I put it on and I always get +10% more than I was asking for... :D

TheJackal
07-19-2002, 01:37 AM
Shara I dont know if this is too late or whatever



But DONT put stupid music like that. No girls fall for that unless they are really shallow. Just be yourself. Have a good time.

Camus
07-19-2002, 01:41 AM
Originally posted by TheJackal
Shara I dont know if this is too late or whatever



But DONT put stupid music like that. No girls fall for that unless they are really shallow. Just be yourself. Have a good time.


That really hit the nail on the head... :D

Clem
07-19-2002, 01:45 AM
i agree

have fun

if stuff happens .... gr8

if not ..... theres always next time

TheJackal
07-19-2002, 01:46 AM
Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick.

I was thinking about my last girlfriend and any time we ... did stuff... she played the music. :D So it's #1 easier for me #2 i have no taste in music.

However if you dont know her at all or not even her girlfriend I wouldn't try to play music just to get moves on a girl.

That only happens in television and cheap movies.:p

Jedi Hunter2354
07-19-2002, 01:51 AM
How about:

Mc Hammer - U can't touch this

OH WAIT OH WAIT wrong angle

hmmm

Nelly - Hot in Herre

I think the "its getting hot in here, so take off all your clothes" could be used a big suggestively if you know what I mean ;)

Clem
07-19-2002, 01:53 AM
or u could be immature :)

s0ulblihtr
07-19-2002, 02:07 AM
Originally posted by TheJackal
Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick.

I was thinking about my last girlfriend and any time we ... did stuff... she played the music. :D So it's #1 easier for me #2 i have no taste in music.

However if you dont know her at all or not even her girlfriend I wouldn't try to play music just to get moves on a girl.

That only happens in television and cheap movies.:p

Listen to this man! If you are on top of you game you should not really have to work to hard to get the lady where you want her( in the sac, playing tonsul hockey, etc.). One thing is to NOT TRY TO HARD. Ladies can spot that a mile away. Be yourself. That is what attracted her to you in the first place. You don't want to be a wuss but you also don't want to be overbearing when it comes to getting close.

As far as music I don't know what type of music you listen to so I can't really say. DEFINITELY DON'T PUT ON MARVIN GAYE "Lets get it on". Unless she came over just to let you hit it, then don't because thats a turn off to women. I would put on something that you yourself can get to that you know ladies also like. It doesn't have to be slow... fefinitely not fast, but something thats chilled out and smooth with a cool arse beat. Need more advice from your Pretty Boy extraordinaire feel free to PM me. Always happy to help a growing ladies man!!!

Divine Spirit
07-19-2002, 02:10 AM
Originally posted by TheJackal
Actually, if you DO want music. Let her pick. You want to make out with her so let her pick.

you could do that but i think she would appreciate it a lot more if you managed to pick music that she liked. Its a risk you may or may not want to take.

mima kake
07-19-2002, 02:22 AM
Well it all depence on the kind of mood (ambiance) you would like to create.

So any music will do (trust mima we know music;) )

Absurd
07-19-2002, 02:23 AM
Originally posted by SharaFett
i have a girl coming over this weekend. her family and our family have been close for a while. she hinted that she wants us to get closer to each other than friends. while my parents and her parents go out to dinner on saturday night, i'll be alone with her. i was wondering, what type of music should i use (give me song name, artist, ect) for the mood? i'm looking particularily for makeout music. how else can i improve the setting?

Are you ready to pay for and raise a kid?

If not, don't touch her.

Clem
07-19-2002, 02:26 AM
i dunno if hes planning on going that far ... and if he is thats fine if he uses protection

oh i hear thats a good band going around ... called fresh cream

dodgy name and i havent heard ne of their stuff but .... ive heard good stuff about em

Absurd
07-19-2002, 02:27 AM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
[B]i dunno if hes planning on going that far ... and if he is thats fine if he uses protection


That's fine?

Are you kidding?

You can get STDs and get a girl pregnant with 'protection'.

World population 6 billion and growing more stupid each time.

Clem
07-19-2002, 02:29 AM
condoms are 99% effective

good enuff id say

Camus
07-19-2002, 02:32 AM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
condoms are 99% effective

good enuff id say

Its 99.9%... I know someone that did a report on it... :D

Clem
07-19-2002, 02:37 AM
i knew it was above 99 but not that much above

i dont wanna ask how this test was performed :)

Camus
07-19-2002, 02:44 AM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
i knew it was above 99 but not that much above

i dont wanna ask how this test was performed :)

Lot of the time... Its the male not knowing how to put one on and ends up pocking a small hole in it... :D

s0ulblihtr
07-19-2002, 02:47 AM
Originally posted by Camus


Lot of the time... Its the male not knowing how to put one on and ends up pocking a small hole in it... :D

or even sometimes its the lady trying to trap you and make you a father because she doesn't want to lose you... I don't know this from experience, I've had friends that this has happend to

Camus
07-19-2002, 02:50 AM
Originally posted by s0ulblihtr


or even sometimes its the lady trying to trap you and make you a father because she doesn't want to lose you... I don't know this from experience, I've had friends that this has happend to


Forced commitment... that is evil...

Clem
07-19-2002, 02:52 AM
women are evil but u gotta love em

shaihulud
07-19-2002, 03:06 AM
women = money * time, time is money, women = money * money, money is the "root of evil", women = root(evil) * root(evil)
therefore:
women = evil :D

Seriously tho, I think mista-man up there had the right idea. Let her pick the music is probably the safest, and most successful path. The reasons behind this are really sorta two-fold:
First, it shows yer interested in making her happy, and you know wutever she picks, she'll like.
Second, its a good gauge of wut kinda mood she's in. If she picks Joe Cocker or Simon and G-Funk (thats Garfunkle for the uninformed, :D ), its unF! time...but if she picks, say, The Doors, or Nine Inch Nails for that matter, its a pretty good hint that you should back off and just take it easy.

Aight, thats my 2-cents. Hope it helps.

ShaiHulud - The big f*cking worm

Turgenev
07-19-2002, 03:09 AM
Originally posted by SharaFett
i have a girl coming over this weekend. her family and our family have been close for a while. she hinted that she wants us to get closer to each other than friends. while my parents and her parents go out to dinner on saturday night, i'll be alone with her. i was wondering, what type of music should i use (give me song name, artist, ect) for the mood? i'm looking particularily for makeout music. how else can i improve the setting?

Judgements on what you DO on this magickal evening nonewithstanding... your original question was for mood music. Focus on relaxing music. Techno ain't the thing, although Enigma "1990" is phoenomenal. Their following albums are great too, but IMHO, "1990" is designed for this sorta stuff. :)

However, if she KNOWS that, then you're in for some embarrassing moments! Enigma's last album ("Le Roi est Morte" I think) is also very good, with Cross of Changes a good third. Also look at acoustic versions of Tori Amos if you can DL/burn it. Any harsh instrumental goes out the window (read: Satriani).

In the more classical vein, classical guitar is wonderful. Violins are bad (too shrill, gives a chaste image, and she'll think you're damned weird), piano is ok, depending on the piece. Oh, and if you pick music like this, make sure you listen to it beforehand and know what the heck it's about? If she asks you "That guitar's wonderful, what is it?"... at least know the artist's name!?

Settings... frankly, if you're doing anything at home, don't make everything look like a precursor to romance. I'd suggest going out and enjoying each other's company, where if the moment strikes you can find a quiet corner and lock braces or something. ;) (jk) Do interactive, not passive things. Movies, as the cliche goes, are the worst, since you're NOT LOOKING AT EACH OTHER. Dances/raves/rodeos, etc. can be good, but distracting. If I were you, I'd take her to a quiet italian restaurant and chat over wine, then go out to an evening field and gaze up at the stars.

As someone else noted earlier, BE YOURSELF. Don't be "yourself lookin' to score the hoochie", otherwise you'll ruin it AND insult her intentions with you. Relax, expect nothing, and with luck you'll be pleasantly surprised. :cool: Remember, the "hot action" myth on the first date is pretty much a TV-based myth. If you like her, just like her, don't try to MAKE her like you. Everything will happen the way it should.

That's it. I saw the other "recommendations" from others, and just had to throw in my two bytes to save you from them. ;) Although if you turn the stereo on, and you hear "Love Is In the Air, Every Time I Turn Around..." you can make it a great joke to break the ice!

Peace out. Good luck.

Divine Spirit
07-19-2002, 03:14 AM
Originally posted by Camus


Its 99.9%... I know someone that did a report on it... :D

Dont make me use the 'P' word again :D :D :p

Camus
07-19-2002, 03:26 AM
Originally posted by Divine Spirit


Dont make me use the 'P' word again :D :D :p

What word again???

Darth Knight
07-19-2002, 03:32 AM
condoms do not protect against a lot of stds becasue the disease is so small it can get through the rubber lining and one of you gets something that is bad

Divine Spirit
07-19-2002, 04:00 AM
Originally posted by Camus


What word again???

Pedantic

:D

Camus
07-19-2002, 04:03 AM
Originally posted by Divine Spirit


Pedantic

:D


No!!! ~covers his ears and acts like the Knights of Ni as they hear the word "it"~

Kstar__2
07-19-2002, 06:01 AM
Originally posted by Reb_Starblazer

As for music, I agree with Divine Spirit, Jazz is great. Also, try some classical. Maybe even "Across the Stars":p It's not called "love theme" for nothing you know:D


i fully agree with that!