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insanekiddo
07-19-2002, 03:24 AM
i'm male 11 and i donno wot to do...i have a friend who's a girl.....i kinda fancie her but we r really good friends and if i tell her and she don't fancie me then she will hate me (i know) but if she does fancie me and i tell her then it'll be ok......i donno if she does fancie me tho...wot do i do!

Camus
07-19-2002, 03:44 AM
Originally posted by insanekiddo
i'm male 11 and i donno wot to do...i have a friend who's a girl.....i kinda fancie her but we r really good friends and if i tell her and she don't fancie me then she will hate me (i know) but if she does fancie me and i tell her then it'll be ok......i donno if she does fancie me tho...wot do i do!


Simple... flurt... If she flurts back plus some hit on her... then take casual passes... Its all about keeping your cool and your head on strait...

Clem
07-19-2002, 03:46 AM
mate ur 11 .... keep the friend ... ull find other girls friends are harder to come by

Darth Knight
07-19-2002, 03:47 AM
man 11 years old that is really young but with my experience i have found that there is not 1 thing that gets all girls so don't follow rules or anything but yeah follow camus's advice then act yourself don't try to hard

Clem
07-19-2002, 03:47 AM
hehe camus i do nothing but flirt ...... and i get nowhere :)

Kyth'emos
07-19-2002, 03:50 AM
Dude your 11, wait at leat 2 years.

Clem
07-19-2002, 03:53 AM
dont wait ... y wait .... but just dont go chasing after every girl u see .... u'll be bored of it by the time ur 13

Divine Spirit
07-19-2002, 03:53 AM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
hehe camus i do nothing but flirt ...... and i get nowhere :)

i know what u mean! :(

Chastan
07-19-2002, 03:54 AM
get her in your room, play some h0t music to sex her up

seriously though, ask her to go to a movie or something, it could be explained both as a friend thing / date thing, depending on how it goes

Tyrion
07-19-2002, 03:55 AM
I'm 11 too,and I dont have any experience in that(Except getting dumped without being in a relationship).

You could ask all my friends though.....

(They seriously need a half happy/sad emotioncon)

Oh well, uh, I would give you advice,but it'd end up in big,black, burning,hellish, flames.....:D

Clem
07-19-2002, 04:10 AM
i aint complaining tho .... like 80% of my mates are girls :) loads of em are good lookin 2 ... suits me fine ....

obi
07-19-2002, 04:29 AM
Insanekiddo, do this:

1. Watch where you ask. This is a Star Wars/Lucas Arts forum. not a dating service.

2. Restart windows in Dos mode.

3. Type in "Format C:"

Then, you will have all of the girls you could ever imagine........

s0ulblihtr
07-19-2002, 04:31 AM
Another Youngster needing advice from the Pretty Boy Extraordinaire... Ok listen up. Camus is right be yourself. If thats what got you close to the chick in the first place then keep doing what you do. Next don't try to hard to please or don't go out of your way to please. At the age that you are at its all about puppy love. You may like her one week next week she may be old news after you've spent a lot of time with her. Also at you age girls tend to go for the guy who cares but doesn't really care. You know? I think its the young girls lust for the "bad boy". When I was your age I had a few girlfriends. Never settle for just one lady. Your too young to want just one. Have a ton of women, and when you get tired of one then just hang with the other one. If one is acting stupid and nagging about stupid ish then talk to one that isn't. Always! ALWAYS make sure your game is tight, never leave holes in your stories, and you know what I've noticed if you keep it really with a girl you can usually get exactly what you want without the commitment, but your young you dont' need to worry about that. Just focus on being yourself and you'll have ol girl eating out of your hand. BE YOURSELF!!!

Darth Knight
07-19-2002, 04:37 AM
Originally posted by obi-wan13
Insanekiddo, do this:

1. Watch where you ask. This is a Star Wars/Lucas Arts forum. not a dating service.

2. Restart windows in Dos mode.

3. Type in "Format C:"

Then, you will have all of the girls you could ever imagine........

it didn't work is there any thing else you can recomend for me

whitedragon
07-19-2002, 04:37 AM
Originally posted by insanekiddo
i'm male 11 and i donno wot to do...i have a friend who's a girl.....i kinda fancie her but we r really good friends and if i tell her and she don't fancie me then she will hate me (i know) but if she does fancie me and i tell her then it'll be ok......i donno if she does fancie me tho...wot do i do!
sit down at your computer, play games and bring this subjuect up when your 14 or so then ill give you advice about everything:naughty:

Clem
07-19-2002, 04:39 AM
hey us lot .... we're pretty good at this dating advice :)

Goten583
07-19-2002, 04:44 AM
Wait till she doesnt think boys are icky anymore. LOL

:p :D

Tyrion
07-19-2002, 04:50 AM
Originally posted by Darth Clem
hey us lot .... we're pretty good at this dating advice :)

Yeah.......my new advice is to find a girl who's at least half-hot,but also likes to games.

There's a girl at my school who like's theif and tribes, and she's cute,,and I know she likes me,but what's best is that she likes games so I can morph her into my gaming goddess....:evil2: :D

:D :D :D

WolfmanNCSU
07-19-2002, 04:52 AM
11 is young, but its all still good. There is not much advice to really recieve. Be yourself, blah blah blah, (you know about that already, but its really great advice).

Remember that you guys are friends. Female friends are not hard to come by, they are just like the guys, so dont worry about not getting any other female friends. And if she is not interested beyond that level, just let it be and remain friends, dont act all weird, mad, or pissy at her after that. Just happens sometimes, people make better friends than couples sometimes.

Flirting is good, to see how she responds, dont do it too much or make it OVER obvious. Just see how she responds to it. You can make the call.

A good place to start is ask her out to something. Does not have to be one on one, or a real date. Its probably hard to do stuff like that at age anyway. Call her on the phone, invite her to dinner or eat with her, go to an after school activity like a sports event or play with her, school dance. Even go with a group of friends.

Anyways, I hope this helps some, good luck. Just dont be nervious and you'll do fine. What happens happens. Dont make a fool of yourself and dont get used, this can happen in a situation like this, so just be carefull. Thats about it.

Clem
07-19-2002, 04:53 AM
lol u want sum1 like lexx .. whos a bit more available ;)

Camus
07-19-2002, 04:58 AM
:S Well... all I can say is... What everyone else did... wait a few years... see how it goes play cool make slow moves and dont lose your head or do any thing drastic... You never know... You may hold out on her for along time and find out she likes at the age of 16... play it cool with her tell 18... and go from there as you need too... :D Thats what I did with my g/f... :D

King Andrei
07-20-2002, 08:54 PM
Originally posted by obi-wan13
Insanekiddo, do this:

1. Watch where you ask. This is a Star Wars/Lucas Arts forum. not a dating service.

2. Restart windows in Dos mode.

3. Type in "Format C:"

Then, you will have all of the girls you could ever imagine........

It's Yoda Swamp, where all topics are allowed. (Unless it's a spam, useless, topic.)

obi
07-20-2002, 09:28 PM
Originally posted by Andrei555


It's Yoda Swamp, where all topics are allowed. (Unless it's a spam, useless, topic.)

I don't have a problem with it, and I don't think it's spam or useless.

Let me explain what I meant.

Mostly people here are about 15-17. They may not have much dating experiance(like myself).

Azrael
07-20-2002, 09:41 PM
Okay, first, never ever ever ask people on a Star Wars message board for romance advice. No offense guys, and gals, but we're not exactly the best sources for this. No, don't flame with stuff like, "I've got a girlfriend." or "I'm married." I think you can agree that this is not the place to find the best help. We'll try anyway, though.:D

Okay, you're eleven. She's eleven, too, I'm assuming. You're obviously British, because I know know other people that use the word "fancy" in reference to attraction. That's okay, though. Just tell her that you "fancy" her. It doesn't really matter what happens. if she likes you, too, then, hey great! If not, she'll probably still just wanna be friends. Or she's not worth it. Contrary to what Hollywood tells us, women don't usually start to like you if there' no initial attraction. Trust me. i've got plenty of experience in that field. If she does say no, though, don't hold it against her. Bad idea! Just still be a friend. If you're really lucky, she'll get another boyfriend, break up with him, and come sobbing back to you for a shoulder to cry on. That's when you make your move.:D It may sound crummy, but that might be the only way. And yeah, yous hould probably wait a year or so.

ps It's spelled flirt, not flurt. And flirting's kinda hard if you don't know what you're doing.

Divine Spirit
07-20-2002, 09:55 PM
Originally posted by Azrael
Okay, first, never ever ever ask people on a Star Wars message board for romance advice. No offense guys, and gals, but we're not exactly the best sources for this. No, don't flame with stuff like, "I've got a girlfriend." or "I'm married." I think you can agree that this is not the place to find the best help. We'll try anyway, though.:D

hey man! we like to downplay that stereotype!

:D

obi
07-20-2002, 10:05 PM
Originally posted by Azrael
don't flame with stuff like, "I've got a girlfriend." or "I'm married."



I have a girlfriend and I'm married.


:D

(Sorry, it had to be said:D )

Lunatic Jedi
07-21-2002, 06:58 AM
Impress her! Impress everybody! Create a stealth suit that enables you to pop out of thin air and shock everyone! Build a 40-foot mech and drive it to school!

Before you know it, everyone will hail you, and the girls will adore you!

It worked for me! *Dissappears into thin air.*

King Andrei
07-21-2002, 08:26 AM
Originally posted by obi-wan13
I have a girlfriend and I'm married.

Ahh! I'm telling your wife.:)

NerfYoda
07-22-2002, 03:59 AM
Do what we did back in the day: Wave your arms about randomly & wildly, while shes disteracted you hit her over the head with a club & drag her back to your cave. Kids these days...

Seriously. Be yourself. Talk to her & get to know her. Take her out to the soda shop or the sock hop or whatever it is that you kids today do... :)

leXX
07-22-2002, 09:00 AM
Your 11 years old ffs! Wait a couple of years, there is plenty of time to worry about girls in the future and besides, girls are hassle, I should know! :D

Darklighter
07-22-2002, 09:11 AM
Why should you know lexx? I don't get it:confused: ........hehe:D

Camus is right. Just go with it. Act naturally, don't try and force it. If she has feelings for you she'll show it. Don't rush into anything dude. Be careful, she's your friend...you don't wanna mess it up...:)

JrKASperov
07-22-2002, 09:16 AM
Boy, you dont want a girl yet, first you gotta observe them(in every possible way :dev9: and when you discovered their evil and dark motives and plans, then you strike by being yourself....

worked for me:D

QuietSith
07-22-2002, 09:57 AM
Avoid girls until you are 18.

Why are you trying to ruin your life so quickly? :p

Keep playing videogames ...

obi
07-22-2002, 10:02 AM
Originally posted by QuietSith


Keep playing videogames ...

That's good advice for any problem. :D

But yea, try to avoid them girls at least untill your 14, because eralier then that, you won't understande a thing. :)

Clem
07-22-2002, 10:32 AM
oooh obi thats evil

implying that he'll ever understand women is evil

WOMEN ARE CONFUSING .... live with it :)

Yom
07-22-2002, 10:36 AM
Originally posted by whitedragon

sit down at your computer, play games and bring this subjuect up when your 14 or so then ill give you advice about everything:naughty:

shoot white why dont we wait till he is 15 and take him out on the town to find wemon and maby get the kid drunk at the same time

but kid yeah my best friend is a gal and she is hot and she has a losey b/f that is not me. DARN THAT BOYFRIEND!! well what i am saying is dude is that u are to yung. hell u are 11 u should be out playing games and wathcing cartoons and riding bikes and stuff like that. But be your self to get the phone # and names staked up untill that time were u do start hitting on them all

Originally posted by Tyrion
There's a girl at my school who like's theif and tribes, and she's cute,,and I know she likes me,but what's best is that she likes games so I can morph her into my gaming goddess....


and for u Tyrion on that gal that plays game u might like u. well what are u waiting for. one thing is that u should be playing more tribs and playing her at it. and then bring her to this. but as i said you are 11.

Tyrion
07-22-2002, 10:39 AM
Originally posted by Yom


shoot white why dont we wait till he is 15 and take him out on the town to find wemon and maby get the kid drunk at the same time

but kid yeah my best friend is a gal and she is hot and she has a losey b/f that is not me. DARN THAT BOYFRIEND!! well what i am saying is dude is that u are to yung. hell u are 11 u should be out playing games and wathcing cartoons and riding bikes and stuff like that. But be your self to get the phone # and names staked up untill that time were u do start hitting on them all



and for u Tyrion on that gal that plays game u might like u. well what are u waiting for. one thing is that u should be playing more tribs and playing her at it. and then bring her to this. but as i said you are 11.

Yeah,my friends are only 11 and they have girlfriends too....then again one of them said that he was dating a cheerleader....

Yom
07-22-2002, 10:43 AM
Originally posted by Tyrion


Yeah,my friends are only 11 and they have girlfriends too....then again one of them said that he was dating a cheerleader....

at 11 do u even have cheerleaders if not i find that hard to see that another 11 year old i dating some one that old

QuietSith
07-22-2002, 12:04 PM
Stop encouraging this kid.

Teenage pregnancy is bad enough as it is.

Yah, play games and watch cartoons.

Heck, I'm over 18 and I watch Bugs Bunny all the time. :p

Clem
07-22-2002, 12:06 PM
he doesnt have to jump in bed with her straight away!

he can have a relationship with her without bedding her

and at 11 .... he aint a teen yet! :eek: :p

QuietSith
07-22-2002, 12:11 PM
He's too young and under-emotionally developed to get into a relationship.

He needs to wait it out . . .

Clem
07-22-2002, 12:12 PM
maybe ..... but hey let him make his own mistakes

if he messes it up ... theres other girls

QuietSith
07-22-2002, 12:19 PM
It would be too traumatic for him, it'd be all emotion without any mature rational process or experience to back it up.

Nope, he needs to wait ...

In fact, he shouldn't be asking people on this board for advice - he should be talking to his parents.

Tyrion
07-22-2002, 12:20 PM
Originally posted by QuietSith
It would be too traumatic for him, it'd be all emotion without any concrete mature rational or experience to back it up.

Nope, he needs to wait ...

Unlike me,cause if I read the genuine book to dating,I'd have to read everything except getting dumped...

:( :D :D :D

QuietSith
07-22-2002, 12:22 PM
Huh?

I don't understand your response.

All I'm saying is he should appeal to his parents on this issue - they raised him, are raising him, and know what's best for his value system.

I am speaking from experience about all this, but I'm not going to give you my life story, that would become a novel and it's really no one's business.

Tyrion
07-22-2002, 12:28 PM
Originally posted by QuietSith
Huh?

I don't understand your response.

All I'm saying is he should appeal to his parents on this issue - they raised him, are raising him, and know what's best for his value system.

I am speaking from experience about all this, but I'm not going to give you my life story, that would become a novel and it's really no one's business.

My post was before you edited that part in.

I was talking about the part in your post that says it would be too tramatic if he was dumped.

That's all.:D

Edit-you're not talking about dumping,right?

oh well...I still am a major in accepting a dump...:D

Clem
07-22-2002, 12:31 PM
we obv have differing opinions

i think he should wade in and play around cos u gotta learn sumhow

its always traumatic being dumped ... whether ur young or not

if u dont get hurt by being dumped ... i worry about u i really do

Yom
07-22-2002, 12:42 PM
ok here how about this tyrion u go off and get together with this chik u like and insanekiddo u wait a few years and then start a relation ship with her. now with both 11 year olds donting the complet oppiset that way one can lear from the others misstakes they are both ginny pigs

but insane the reson u should wait is that if she is a really good friend of yours that is some thing u sould keep good friendships are all ways good to keep.

Clem
07-22-2002, 12:47 PM
its much harder to learn from other peoples mistakes

i agree however a friendship is worth more than a relationship