View Full Version : I think I need advice...

09-21-2002, 08:09 AM
Okay, see, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 6 days now, in the begining, we were like this perfect couple from heaven...or the movies. all the towns youth were talking about us, and, well, everything was perfect...
But I've noticed something in the last days... when we are alone, it's completely different than when we are with other people. It's like I'm not myself when I'm alone with her....my mind goes blank and I cant find anything to say, and that's just not like me.
Also, I've showered her with so many "I love you"s that now when I say "I love you" it's like it's lost it's magic...Also all the kisses and hugs and everything, I feel they lost their touch...

I wont make this post too long, so i'll stop here with the basics...

09-21-2002, 08:19 AM

09-21-2002, 08:55 AM
I have rejected Courting. I'm not weird or anything, but women will always leave you, no matter what. (they always leave me, anyways)

Sorry I can't help, but it sounds like the usual youth couple to me.

09-21-2002, 09:12 AM
Thanks natts :)

09-21-2002, 09:20 AM
Your welcome :) Talking to her is the only way your gonna resolve anything, coz if you keep it bottled up then in most cases it makes things worse when there's no need for it- and that's coming from experience :)

09-21-2002, 09:36 AM
Natty is dead on right! Talk to her.

09-21-2002, 09:38 AM
I did last night already

09-21-2002, 09:55 AM
I know the feeling, it gets better though. Me and DC (dun ask) we ay 'i love u' so much it means nothing any more. We've run out of stuff 2 tok about and all that. But. . . it gets better, just think of weird stuff to talk about before and treat each other like best friens.

Hope that helps ya..

Pika Dudette

09-21-2002, 11:56 AM
Yes but NiKo your girlfriend said she doesn't care if you guys sit in silence for hours and don't say a word to each other as long as your together. In all honesty I do find that quite disturbing if she thinks she can make a relationship worthwhile if you don't say anything to each other.

Like you and I said on ICPOO, if she's gone to a rock concert with you, it seems like she's willing to try and make things work (especially since you say she's into hip hop and r&b) its only fair that you try and return that sort of a gesture even if it means going to an underage club with her or something.

Also remember, balance is important, spend equal amount of time alone with her, with your friends, her and her friends and your girlfriend, her friends and your friends altogether in a huge group :)

BTW- hows you feeling? I've been worried about you since you know :(

09-21-2002, 03:11 PM
I was mostly depressed all day, but I'm okay now...:)
Thanks Natty

09-21-2002, 05:59 PM
I guess I'm not the right person for this since I abandoned "love&relationships" about a year ago.:o

09-21-2002, 10:31 PM
Originally posted by Dracyia
Pika Dudette

Dudette? :confused:

:eek: Oh.... :eek: