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Natty
02-21-2003, 06:49 PM
Feel so much happier, after 3years I was getting bored, and I don't think he liked my new personality :) We're still friends though and we agreed it was for the best. Anyways I'm so much happier now

HelenW
02-21-2003, 06:55 PM
New personality??

Well, if your happy now Natty, then it was probably for the best. It's better to end things sooner if you can still be friends, than leave it till you hate each others guts!

I hope you can both still stay friends, I know it's hard staying friends with ex's, but good luck to you.

Natty
02-21-2003, 07:06 PM
Apperantly I've become obnoxious and not so sweet anymore. Besides he doesn't like the new people I'm hanging out with and things haven't been the same since I kissed a guy as a dare. Was out with friends one night and we were playing truth or dare and yeah... he said he didn't mind since it was only a dare but I knew he did so I kinda felt like he was implying something sometimes- like there was more going on between me and this guy than a kiss as a dare (which is hard considering he's gay) but I think he was also hurt that I went to a party on Valentines Day instead of seeing him- which like he knows I think Valentines Day is a waste of time and money, just lil things like that have caused us to break up

Feral
02-21-2003, 07:20 PM
I hope that's not just the denial talking, because 3 years is a long time.
I hope you still feel that you've made the right decision, and it's good that you're still friends, but at the same time, it must be strange for you both to be single.

Natty
02-21-2003, 07:23 PM
I know I've made the right decision, we agreed on both parts, 3years and him being my first boyfriend, it's time to move on, I'm at a stage where I want to experience different things, different people and he didn't approve of it. It was a hard decision but I know I've made the right one

And my love had become more like a brotherly love I have for him, he's the same age as one of my older brothers so yeah, I still love him, just in a different way, probably another reason why I was feeling unhappy

obi
02-22-2003, 04:46 PM
*puts on tuxedo and picks little flowers off of ground*

*goes to Natty's house*

*knocks on door*

*says something to Natty*

*gets slapped, as door slams in face*

Joshi
02-22-2003, 05:21 PM
ah well, after three years, youve become two different people, it happens and it's a good thing that you broke up in the best way possible (i.e. no one gets hurt). and of course, you want to meet new people, experiance new things, go out with other guys, have a good time when going out without worrying about if what your doing will hurt your boyfriend, and so on. i think it's very healthy. i wish you all the luck (normally at a time like this, i'd jokingly hit on you, but i already know the outcome so i'll just skip past that and get an ice pack for my eye)

Peace
Neil
;)

Darth Eggplant
02-22-2003, 08:43 PM
:violin: