Originally posted by SuperSquall
There are two ways I can think of that you could go about this right now, and you should check out this thread:
You could download the KotOR Save Editor and simply change the gender of your PC but *not* change their appearance or anything. This would make them act (in your case) like a male PC (that can have the love story with Bastila) but would maintain the female model.
Alternatively you could just grab this mod and apply it.
Me? I'd grab both.
your qoute is the wrong one? i dont want to change the gender at all. i think u meant to quote Taerdin