I think it's interesting to understand that no matter what the newbie pretends to believe, he still realizes in an underlying abstract sense that he was "raped." In other words dominated, beaten, exposed against his will. A higher external authority has intruded upon him, contended with his presence, and ravaged it from all directions. No matter what he would like to pretend, he secretly understands this to be true as he understands that the visual evidence in this thread does not and cannot possibly lie and that the rhetorical evidence in this thread is objective reality.
He has lost on all counts.