Originally Posted by Asg_007
That clarifies things for the future, although, seems easy to have something done wrong because it is difficult to earn any respect from Haindmaiden and it takes a lot of time. In Visas's case, after several polite conversations I had about 98 inlfluence! Even after very meeting Visas for the first time, it is a way too easy to have more influence over Visas than Handmaiden who has been in the party for so long.
This is off topic but you should check Achilles' Influence guide to avoid this happening again. It lists every Inf opportunity in the game