So I just finished reading a book called "Finding Darwin's God" by Kenneth Miller.
I strongly recommend this book to anyone, but in particular to those who feel that evolution is incompatible with their religion. The first half of the book is devoted to showing exactly why and how evolution happened, and then debunks the myths of creationism and intelligent design. The second half of the book is devoted to explaining why it is that Western religions should be excited about evolution. (Kenneth Miller is a devout Christian).
It is extremely well written, and amazingly informative.