That seems a bit pleonasm-ish, eh? Women *are* confused and hurt themselves, and there's nothing you can do about it - except - you give it to 'em raw and uncensored. This will stop them from hurting themselves but of course, they will be still confused, mainly because they're very busy with taking your manly blows.
So, you should keep the money, because it should be honour enough for them if you punch him in. If not, and they deny the exclusivity of your dick, you shouldn't do'em anyway.