Kudos for an interesting and original topic.
I take issue with calling it "capitalist family" as it's not necessary for capitalism to function, you don't need such a family to accumulate and reinvest wealth. I', not saying it isn't helpful, as females tend to end up doing a lot of unpaid work in the family thus helping the male accumulate capital.
Also for the purpose of this thread, do you mind providing a definition of bourgeois values?
I'll reply more fully once that is out of the way