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Old 12-27-2011, 01:35 AM   #1327
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Originally Posted by Rogue15 View Post
yeah that's kind of why i haven't bailed...though i do question it sometimes...if i were to get all those, get married...and then she hit the divorce button, i'd be pretty screwed.
Especially true since you're in the military. From what I've seen, divorces often end up a good deal worse for the soldier than the spouse. I'd recommend holding off on the most serious commitments until you've spent more time in the military, and seen whether the relationship can survive with the unavoidable extra stresses the military life provides.

Originally Posted by K_Kinnison View Post
If you need a pre-nup, you shouldn't get married.
I'd have to disagree. If you feel like you need a pre-nup, you shouldn't get married. However, people should get them despite their feelings. Weird, horrible, unforeseeable things happen to good people all the time, and it's not always either party's fault. Wanting to prepare for the worst, most unlikely eventualities is not an expression of a lack of trust. Hell, my wife is one of maybe 3 people on this planet I trust almost completely.

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