Part of my problem with getting the aggro at the start of a fight is my playing style.
Using stealth and sneak I get behind the enemy, if a mob, I tranquilize the strongest enemy, then sneak up behind a lower level one. Use shoot first or back blast, followed by dirty kick, then sucker punch and if necessary blaster whip. Takes out even a strong enemy. If not, depending on the health left, I just use flurry of bolts or thermal detonator. I then use the flash grenade to get the hell out of Dodge and start healing. Come to think of it I really don't have a reason to moan about the baddies chasing me.
I'd be upset too if someone kicked me in the...
