well eHarmony is a bust. i emailed them asking a question and this is what i get:
Thank you for contacting eHarmony Customer Care.
I can certainly understand that you would wish to be matched with subscribers only when you will purchase a membership and I will be glad to provide you with some clarification. Please note that we do not have an option to send you matches who have purchased a membership only. Everyone who joins eHarmony and completes our Relationship Questionnaire successfully is first matched as a non-subscriber. We give all of our members the opportunity to experience our successful matching process and therefore, both paid and non-paid members are included in the matching pool. Once a non-subscriber is ready to take the next step and start communicating, they’re required to join the service as a paid member.
Should you need any further assistance, please do not hesitate to contact us. Our Customer Care Email Team is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
We look forward to helping you find your special someone.
waste of money if you ask me. oh look at ALL THESE MATCHES THAT WON'T REPLY BECAUSE THEY ARE ON A TRIAL AND ARE LIMITED IN COMMUNICATING WITH YOU!!!! yeah, piss off....i'd have better luck at a AA meeting. i think they should give an OPTION to filter out the non subscribers this way you're not wasting TIME on people that have an extremely low likelihood of responding.