ill just stick with pof.com, it's free and i had 1 date off of it so far..and k_k, you're right even though that 1 date wasn't like the date to end all dates, it definitely helped with my confidence around women, so i know i can get girls just have a problem with them "getting" me.
i think deep down in my heart i just want to go on another deployment and leave this trivial mess behind me. idk, just i wish i could not have stupid feelings, self-pity, worthlessness feelings, etc. even though i know i'm doing alot better than i was prior to being deployed...i just miss my ex still and that still haunts me. wish it would go away.