And I totally agree, but your initial post said nothing to that effect. You came out on the attack without elaborating. I didn't like the tone of your original post.
As for me excusing suicide. No, I wasn't, I never have and I never will.
The issue I have are the people who direct hatred and contempt toward people who do contemplate or commit suicide. Just as you and people you know have been through a lot relating to this subject, so have I... and I've observed that hate in others... a kind of hate I can't bring myself to feel for even the one I loved who committed suicide even when her family basically disowned her after the fact.