in Germany we've got a saying
"Der Ton macht die Musik."
It means that the way you talk about things/problems has a great influence on how other people react on what you've got to say.
I guess the problem in many of threads here is, that people see a problem with the game balancing, the way people behave or whatever and start commanding everyone to do as they want.
When someone criticizes those people they often get offensive.
In my opinion there are many things that could be improved in this (really great) game.
But if I find a problem, at first I've gotta look at myself to see if I might be the problem.
The I post it here, see how people react and together we might find a solution that suits everyone or at least many of us.
"I'll make weapons out of my imperfections"