I play a great deal of MP and indeed get my ass kicked plenty but I also kick some ass a bit too.
Really, I dont see what these whiners are all about. Stances are really personal preference, some people are just good with a quick stance, forgo-ing accuracy for speed while some accurate and tactical people prefer heavy. It really boils down to that.
The only rant I can really understand and side with is drain because it is truly the one uncounterable power. Absorb? Better have a good ping and they can just wait anyway. But otherwise there really is nothing that cant be countered. (I hate it when people whine about grip and push, unless grip is combined with drain (sooo cheap) its easily counterable)