Nice to see an understanding gamer.
If you are interested in our clan, just come to:
fill in an application form with your email address. And instantly you are a 'provisional' member. DregunFly (the founder) will email you about practice days and times, where you can show up for some CTF fun.
There are 2 PRIVATE dueling servers, and 1 public dueling server, where the atmosphere is kept pretty friendly.
Come check us out when you have the time, I must say, joining this clan was a good move for me, the clan I used to be in was not this active. People post in the forums all the time and set up their own little training rooms to practice dueling it. All in all it's about a bunch of internet found friends having fun.