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Old 03-10-2011, 09:38 AM   #1
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Is indoctrination of children child abuse?

I had a few thoughts recently, regarding religious indoctrination of children. It's a fairly controversial topic so I suspect there will be a large amount of negative commentary on this thread, but I really would like views from all sides.

I personally think that bombarding an uninformed mind with religious dogma is a form of abuse.

Dictionary.com defines Child Abuse as:

Mistreatment of a child by a parent or guardian, including neglect, psychological bullying, beating, and sexual molestation.

Most rational and intelligent people would agree that hitting a child is abuse. But though many places call spanking abuse, many parents believe it's not. Burning a child with cigarettes is also (obviously) considered abuse, but smoking around children - even though it is known second-hand smoke causes cancer - is not so clear. Other grey areas, such as shouting (a normal action in many households) is not abuse, but carried to extremes it can be. Calling children names or threatening them (even if the threat is not carried out), can be classed as abuse, depending on who you listen to.

But the grayest of grey areas is the teaching of children. Can religious education of children be abusive? Teaching is clearly valuable, as it prepares children for life, more so when it teaches them how to think, derive answers from evidence and make decisions, but less so when it teaches them what to think.

I've come to the conclusion that indoctrinating children with religion is abuse. Of course, it depends on what you teach them, but if you say 'Now Jimmy, the Bible says 'do X' and if you don't, 'Y' will happen.' What Jimmy is being told may be good, but he's being threatened with x, and that was the only reason given for doing what he was told.

Most parents believe that they should teach their children what they believe. In a never ending cycle, parents who were brainwashed with religious dogma in turn brainwash their own children, whether it has been helpful or harmful. Rather than teaching children that some behaviours are harmful, religion teaches that their very natures are evil, their thoughts are impure and that they are so vile they deserve to be tortured for all eternity, unless they continually beg for forgiveness. They're told that an implacable god is watching them at all times, and he knows what they're doing constantly and will punish them for it (like a Santa-esque bully).

While many adults resent the proliferation of surveillance cameras, they teach their children that a being who can see through walls is constantly watching them. It's a wonder that most people given that type of upbringing aren't schizophrenic!

Stuffing immature minds with religion when they haven't the means to sort through it critically damages the developing psyche. No amount of post-adult reasoning completely frees the subconscious from all the ecclesiastical baggage. I believe that indoctrination discourages reasoning and damages critical thought; furthermore, it fosters guilt which is NEVER a good thing.

However, while some teachings may be damaging, it doesn't constitute abuse in that the parent or teacher intends to harm the child, or is indifferent to the consequences. The end result is the finale of a cycle. Unfortunately, most adults never reason with what they've been taught, which means it carries on from generation to generation. Indeed, the whole idea of faith is to discourage thinking and foster acceptance. Anything that makes the mind worse or causes emotional pain may be characterized as harm, and its' inclusion as abuse.

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Old 03-10-2011, 10:02 AM   #2
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You're making the incorrect assumption that religion is entirely negative, and that therefore teaching children religion is therefore harmful. Your conclusion follows from a false premise and is therefore invalid.

Let's put aside for the moment the obvious atheist bias here.

I'd love to know where teaching children the major themes of loving their neighbors and contributing positively to their families and society (themes in virtually every major religion) is a bad thing. I'd love to know where promoting peace and positive moral values is bad. I'd love to know where religions that encouraged the study of medicine, science, and mathematics, particularly Astronomy (Islam), developed hospitals (Christianity), schools (Christianity), encouraged literacy (Judaism, Christianity and Islam), basic food safety and sanitation (Judaism), inspired major art movements (Hinduism, Christianity), and advances in philosophical thought (Judaism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, etc.) are bad.


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but less so when it teaches them what to think.
The line between the phrases 'how to think' and 'what to think' is very thin. Studying mathematics clearly tells us 'what' to think when we see two objects together - it instructs to believe in the existence of an entity called 'TWO'. Similarly, learning addition teaches us to believe that adding 'TWO' to 'TWO' invariably creates 'FOUR'. If you break every logical process down, you will find that all thought and communication is based on a system of agreement to believe in certain non-concrete ideas. (Cue our local Wittgenstein-quoter)

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Rather than teaching children that some behaviours are harmful, religion teaches that their very natures are evil, their thoughts are impure and that they are so vile they deserve to be tortured for all eternity, unless they continually beg for forgiveness. They're told that an implacable god is watching them at all times, and he knows what they're doing constantly and will punish them for it (like a Santa-esque bully).
While it must no doubt make sense in your context, I should let you know that you're thinking of religion in a very Christian sense (well, Abrahamic sense). Buddhism for example, does not talk about any voyeuristic, punishing god and does not require its followers beg for forgiveness. Besides, the hell sentence in Hinduism and Buddhism isn't even eternal.
just several million years long

In the Christian context, you have to remember that this is something the parents themselves likely believe. They may be trying to scare their kids, but this is probably something they believe in too. So how can it be said to be damaging the psyche, if you have no "normal" frame of mind to compare against? We know a schizophrenic by comparison to a normal person, so who is the "normal" person to contrast against (the very wide-ranging) crowd of people afflicted by religion? And how is the religious person's psyche affected compared to Mr. Normale?

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While many adults resent the proliferation of surveillance cameras, they teach their children that a being who can see through walls is constantly watching them. It's a wonder that most people given that type of upbringing aren't schizophrenic!
Neat observation, but God isn't human and won't be jacking off watching someone naked, or laughing at someone while, they, erm, ahem.

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Stuffing immature minds with religion when they haven't the means to sort through it critically damages the developing psyche. No amount of post-adult reasoning completely frees the subconscious from all the ecclesiastical baggage.
Doubtful, there's plenty of people around who've turned atheist after growing up in religion while they were adults.

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I believe that indoctrination discourages reasoning and damages critical thought; furthermore, it fosters guilt which is NEVER a good thing.
Again, this is a very Christian thing. Besides, indoctrination without critique is actually discouraged many religions (and not just the Buddha, whom I'd be quoting right about now if it weren't for Tysy's thread earlier). Islam for example, developed a highly sophisticated science of inquiry, criticism and information verification that the West embraced so tightly in the Reformation.

Religious teaching is different from religious indoctrination. It's about as different as a person converting of his own free will to a person being forced to convert. Whether parents are teaching kids their religion, or indoctrinating them is not something the State can dive into and inspect.

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Indeed, the whole idea of faith is to discourage thinking and foster acceptance.
I disagree, I think the 'whole idea' of faith, as it were, is to instil hope where there would otherwise be none. It isn't about discouraging thinking at all. Scientists throughout history have held faith, and yet never given up on their work.

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Anything that makes the mind worse or causes emotional pain may be characterized as harm, and its' inclusion as abuse.
Emotional pain can only occur if one chooses to be emotionally pained. If that isn't true, then by god, I'd have jailed a bazillion people by now.

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Jae, she's talking about religious indoctrination specifically. We're talking fundies and Wahabbis here.

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Old 03-10-2011, 11:39 AM   #4
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Jae, she's talking about religious indoctrination specifically. We're talking fundies and Wahabbis here.
Right, but her premise appears to be that religious teaching of any kind=indoctrination. Taking my kids to church, reading the Bible, instilling faith in them to better their lives and give them hope in a hopeless world, and discussing religion (including questions about other religions, which I try to answer as accurately as possible) in order to help them develop a moral and religious framework for their lives and learn to love their neighbors and develop some healthy morals is hardly abuse.


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Right, but her premise appears to be that religious teaching of any kind=indoctrination. Taking my kids to church, reading the Bible, instilling faith in them to better their lives and give them hope in a hopeless world, and discussing religion (including questions about other religions, which I try to answer as accurately as possible) in order to help them develop a moral and religious framework for their lives and learn to love their neighbors and develop some healthy morals is hardly abuse.
I didn't mean to imply that all religious teaching is bad - sorry if it did - I meant that if you're going to back up your Christian morals with threats (and that is what they are) of eternal damnation, rather than an explanation of the consequences - that is abuse.


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I meant that if you're going to back up your Christian morals with threats (and that is what they are) of eternal damnation, rather than an explanation of the consequences - that is abuse.
But then this eternal damnation will only occur post-death, and hence does not constitute any mortal threat. It's about the equivalent of someone threatening to hex someone else. I'd probably chuckle if someone did that me, but if they threatened to cut every vein in my body with a rusty knife, then I'd probably be spooked.


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I didn't mean to imply that all religious teaching is bad - sorry if it did - I meant that if you're going to back up your Christian morals with threats (and that is what they are) of eternal damnation, rather than an explanation of the consequences - that is abuse.
You seem to make the assumption that the religion is false. You assume that belief in eternal damnation is incorrect. As there is no way of knowing whether that damnation is true or not(religion being about faith instead of provable fact) then you cannot determine that such beliefs are harmful. In fact it may be viewed as abuse to not teach about the failures to follow the religious doctrine should such damnation exist.

Oh and if trying to instill guilt guilt is a form of abuse, then I'm suing a few dozen advertisers for abuse.


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I'd love to know where promoting peace and positive moral values is bad.
Peace? You do realise that there have been many wars started in the past over which religion was praising God the right way right?
When you say positive moral values which bible are you referring to? If (for example) you think what the old testament was proposing was good moral values then i'd strongly disagree. But I keep forgetting that the church can review their "Papal infallibility" and change their views to keep up with society whenever it suits them.

@ Topic: Yes, it is child abuse. If you're religious the decent thing to do would be to not poison your childs mind.


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Peace? You do realise that there have been many wars started in the past over which religion was praising God the right way right?
Wars are made by men. Not religion.

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@ Topic: Yes, it is child abuse. If you're religious the decent thing to do would be to not poison your childs mind.
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Would you not agree, though, that men act on their beliefs?



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I would. Science brought us the study of nuclear energy, and men made nuclear weapons which brought death to many people. Is science to blame? I wouldn't say so. Same with religion.



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Wars are made by men. Not religion.
Religion was made by men, not god(s), to advance whatever the founders thought was important. I won´t go as far as to say that there definetely are no gods or such, but those possible beings had nothing to do with the birth of any religion. Religions were born from man´s curiosity and will to explain what was around him, and to teach others their views.

I see indoctrinating children with religion as a form of abuse because the parents teach the child to limit their thinking. But religious indoctrination is different from religious upbringing, which teaches the child to treat others the way the religion sees fit, and familiarises the child with the theory of the religion. Most people taking part in this conversation don´t seem to separate these two...


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Peace? You do realise that there have been many wars started in the past over which religion was praising God the right way right?
I imagine something in mankind's baser substance would find many things in even an eggshell to war over.

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@ Topic: Yes, it is child abuse. If you're religious the decent thing to do would be to not poison your childs mind.
What if their religion is correct then? Not saying any religion is correct, BUT to them it is. To the parents the religion is the truth. A failure to teach your kids that playing on the freeway will get them killed would be borderline abusive behavior. Would it be wise to tell your kids never to listen to what a cop tells them?

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We're probably close to the same page. Though my belief is there is a god(or gods), but that the belief structures we have created are most likely incorrect. I still try to live my life as I want though as I feel that if he(they) does(do) exist, chances are he(they) want me to live as I have, otherwise I would be struck down somehow.


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What if their religion is correct then? Not saying any religion is correct, BUT to them it is.
I'm sure there are a few who totally 100% believe in christianity, the westboro baptist church are the only ones I can think of who fully follow the old testament though.

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To the parents the religion is the truth. A failure to teach your kids that playing on the freeway will get them killed would be borderline abusive behavior. Would it be wise to tell your kids never to listen to what a cop tells them?
That's incomparable imo.
You could be a religous (or atheist) parent and still fail to teach your kids not to play on the freeway/tell them to ignore cops.


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Since absence of evidence doesn't equal evidence of absence, neither side can claim victory in this battle of ideas.
I got a BIG problem with this statement, one that I've often heard from religious folks.

I can believe that rabbits communicate by sending their thoughts each other by a so-far undiscovered form of communication and will eventually take over human's brains through telepathy, and you can't prove that I'm wrong. But as there's absolutely no ****ing evidence this occurs, you'd be justified in saying that I'm abusing my children by telling them to collect rabbits in the house and help them achieve their ascendancy over the human race.

And yet parents teach their children there's an invisible man watching whom they must do their utmost not to offend.

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I'm sure there are a few who totally 100% believe in christianity, the westboro baptist church are the only ones I can think of who fully follow the old testament though.
The WBC doesn't follow the old testament. They have yet to actually stone any gays.

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Peace? You do realise that there have been many wars started in the past over which religion was praising God the right way right?
When you say positive moral values which bible are you referring to? If (for example) you think what the old testament was proposing was good moral values then i'd strongly disagree. But I keep forgetting that the church can review their "Papal infallibility" and change their views to keep up with society whenever it suits them.

@ Topic: Yes, it is child abuse. If you're religious the decent thing to do would be to not poison your childs mind.
Yes, yes, and Mao and Stalin killed more in the name of their 'infallible Communism and atheism' than all other religious wars combined. I don't buy that argument about religious wars one bit.


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Peace? You do realise that there have been many wars started in the past over which religion was praising God the right way right?
When you say positive moral values which bible are you referring to? If (for example) you think what the old testament was proposing was good moral values then i'd strongly disagree. But I keep forgetting that the church can review their "Papal infallibility" and change their views to keep up with society whenever it suits them.

@ Topic: Yes, it is child abuse. If you're religious the decent thing to do would be to not poison your childs mind.
Are you aware that many wars were started by ambitious individuals who cared little for religion, and used it merely as an excuse to get what they wanted? And what is this about warning children about hell being child abuse? If I remember, a few years ago I was taught about the supposed "stranger danger", is that child abuse too?
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And what is this about warning children about hell being child abuse? If I remember, a few years ago I was taught about the supposed "stranger danger", is that child abuse too?
It can be scientifically proven that the number of strangers you talk to as a child has a direct correlation with your chances of getting abducted and sold off into the flesh trade, or worse. Hell, not so much.


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You're making the incorrect assumption that religion is entirely negative, and that therefore teaching children religion is therefore harmful. Your conclusion follows from a false premise and is therefore invalid.

Let's put aside for the moment the obvious atheist bias here.

I'd love to know where teaching children the major themes of loving their neighbors and contributing positively to their families and society (themes in virtually every major religion) is a bad thing. I'd love to know where promoting peace and positive moral values is bad. I'd love to know where religions that encouraged the study of medicine, science, and mathematics, particularly Astronomy (Islam), developed hospitals (Christianity), schools (Christianity), encouraged literacy (Judaism, Christianity and Islam), basic food safety and sanitation (Judaism), inspired major art movements (Hinduism, Christianity), and advances in philosophical thought (Judaism, Christianity, Hinduism, Islam, etc.) are bad.
And, can we please put aside your obviously Christian bias? Just being fair Jae, but please, let's call an apple an apple.

I was raised Christian, Lutheran to be precise, and although I learned a great number of valuable morals from that upbringing, I also had an irrational fear of doing evil due to the repercussions of an angry God.

I wouldn't go so far as the OP and say that any religious "indoctrination" is irresponsible or abusive, but I would agree with much of the original post. A good parent teaches concrete things concretely: 2+2=4. A good parent teaches things that are not absolute or certain with a grain or two of salt: No daughter, all Muslims are not bad and are not destined for Hell for believing in a different version of the same God that we(sic) do. No son, President Reagan is not trying to blow up the planet or start world war, he is trying to draw a hard line.

The second example is an actual discussion I had with my Dad as a child: my grandmother and mother were staunch Democrats and had planted that seed in my head, that Reagan was sending us to Armageddon with his policies. My Dad was and is a staunch republican, but for one time in his life he treated me like a young intelligent mind rather than the idiot he has generally assumed me to be, and gave me a good answer.

Parents more than anyone else need to be critical thinkers, and be accutely aware of the difference between what they know for fact, and what they believe, and also be aware of the great divide between those two places.


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There are no religious children, only religious parents.
So at what age do these children become "religious" to you?



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So at what age do these children become "religious" to you?
Tough question, It is very individual. And some never grow up. But if I'd have to give you an age - then probably 16-18.

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I like to think that parents are allowed to teach them whatever they feel right as long as they don't violate a set of rules established where they live. Children are in formation and don't have the means to assess what they really want to do. When they mature enough to think for themselves they may either embrace of shun what they were taught. Religious teaching is not indocrination as long as it respects children and teenagers regulations (whih here include religious freedom).


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It's probably helpful to acknowledge that not everyone divides up morality and reality into separate areas of inquiry. Eg. Thomism, which acquired this idea from Aristotle. Hence the idea of punishment in some religious views is seen rather as the natural, unavoidable consequence of certain behaviors.

In this case, one would have to show that the parents are being remiss in their duty to protect and nurture their children. But to do that, one has to have a moral theory which at once makes it a duty to behave toward the children in that manner and also means that certain acts like indoctrination are incompatible with itself. But I don't know how it is possible to have morality without a social structure that includes something akin to indoctrination, even if it doesn't happen to be about any gods. In fact, I would suggest that such a "morality" would merely be a disguised emotivism, a social fiction masquerading as a moral system.

Personally I really don't feel like having the state decide who has the monopoly on "good" indoctrination.


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But to do that, one has to have a moral theory which at once makes it a duty to behave toward the children in that manner and also means that certain acts like indoctrination are incompatible with itself.
Not necessarily. As I mentioned before, indoctrination always carries with it the possibility of negative effects on the child if taken too far. However, in the area between a detrimental level of indoctrination and none whatsoever, there lies a point at which indoctrination becomes both protective and nurturing by way of allowing the child to survive in both society and the world. In this way, a moral code that dictates both the protection and indoctrination of children is in no way at odds with itself.

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Personally I really don't feel like having the state decide who has the monopoly on "good" indoctrination.
So then, who should draw that line between 'good' and 'bad' indoctrination and enforce it? In addition, if a society is the sum of its individuals, why shouldn't society have the right to ensure that the indoctrination of the individual doesn't become detrimental to the society as a whole?

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All that is to point out, that as an atheist its meaningless for you to moan about "Religious Doctrination" being a form of child abuse, given that you have no rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong.
On the other hand, the atheist is free to choose his own moral code, and it's been made clear that question assumes child abuse is immoral, so while your circle of friends is impressive, your argument is, at best, irrelevant.



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I personally think that bombarding an uninformed mind with religious dogma is a form of abuse.
To take an entirely different line to everyone else, I shall reveal what I spent my day doing. I am currently privileged to be in Turkey touring with one of Yales Philosophy Professors, who is giving lectures and seminars on several aspects of Kant's philosophy. I was in discussion with an atheist philosopher at one of these events when I posed the following question;

"One of the main reasons Sir Anthony Flew lists for having recanted his atheism and taken up theism is the failure for the former theory to adequately answer the following question; Do you think their a logicically coherent explanation for morality from an atheistic point of view?"

The professor I was having this discussion with answered that it is meaningless to ask if their is rationality behind our ethics as they are derived from the evolution, as such ethics are arbitrary.

I returned with with the question, "Is killing babies, in the grand scale, removed from your personal opinion actually evil?" - His response was honest, in that he answered "No".

Do not mis-understand me, I am not saying that their are no moral atheists (as in individuals who are atheist and behave in a "good" way), just pointing out that in reality they have no logical reason for their morality, nor do I think do they have a rational argument for why humans should behave morally, and as such cannot compel others to act in a "moral" way.

All that is to point out, that as an atheist its meaningless for you to moan about "Religious Doctrination" being a form of child abuse, given that you have no rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong.

With regards child abuse it seems to me religion doesn't really pay much a part in it, as some people are good parents and others bad... Some atheists are good parents others bad, ditto Muslims, Agnostics etc etc. Furthermore, this paranoia over religious indoctrination seems greatly over stated given there is no psychological evidence that individuals can be brainwashed, and generally from my observance often children rebel against strict religious parenting (at least in the west).



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To take an entirely different line to everyone else, I shall reveal what I spent my day doing. I am currently privileged to be in Turkey touring with one of Yales Philosophy Professors, who is giving lectures and seminars on several aspects of Kant's philosophy. I was in discussion with an atheist philosopher at one of these events when I posed the following question;

"One of the main reasons Sir Anthony Flew lists for having recanted his atheism and taken up theism is the failure for the former theory to adequately answer the following question; Do you think their a logicically coherent explanation for morality from an atheistic point of view?"

The professor I was having this discussion with answered that it is meaningless to ask if their is rationality behind our ethics as they are derived from the evolution, as such ethics are arbitrary.

I returned with with the question, "Is killing babies, in the grand scale, removed from your personal opinion actually evil?" - His response was honest, in that he answered "No".

Do not mis-understand me, I am not saying that their are no moral atheists (as in individuals who are atheist and behave in a "good" way), just pointing out that in reality they have no logical reason for their morality, nor do I think do they have a rational argument for why humans should behave morally, and as such cannot compel others to act in a "moral" way.

All that is to point out, that as an atheist its meaningless for you to moan about "Religious Doctrination" being a form of child abuse, given that you have no rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong.
An interesting parallel is the discussion between Socrates, Polus and Callicles in Plato's Gorgias. Polus maintains a fragmented idea of what constitutes goodness, and hence Socrates is able to trap him into realizing he was inconsistent. But Callicles divorces his ideas completely from recieved notions of justice, etc, and Socrates is unable to force him to find fault with his system (Callicles being the counterpart of the atheist you met).

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Not necessarily. As I mentioned before, indoctrination always carries with it the possibility of negative effects on the child if taken too far. However, in the area between a detrimental level of indoctrination and none whatsoever, there lies a point at which indoctrination becomes both protective and nurturing by way of allowing the child to survive in both society and the world. In this way, a moral code that dictates both the protection and indoctrination of children is in no way at odds with itself.


So then, who should draw that line between 'good' and 'bad' indoctrination and enforce it? In addition, if a society is the sum of its individuals, why shouldn't society have the right to ensure that the indoctrination of the individual doesn't become detrimental to the society as a whole?
As you may note, I am not against indoctrination as such, and I even suggested that it is a necessary part of morality. I simply object to the idea that the state (or any other entity) presenting one type of indoctrination as "the truth"-- when in fact there can be no such determination. Hence I tend to object to any heavy-handed approaches like the original post, where one type of indoctrination is replaced by another wholesale and it is presumed that by doing so moral advancement has been achieved. This can hardly be so when it suffers from exactly the same problem that supposedly precipitated the previous system's removal (that it "indoctrinates"). As free individuals we shouldn't have to deal with that sort of thing.

In this case there is probably something else which makes the offending system unappealing. For example, if you're not religious you're unlikely to think much of religious explanations. But there are plenty of other ways to argue against raising children religiously than that there is some type of indoctrination going on.


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As you may note, I am not against indoctrination as such, and I even suggested that it is a necessary part of morality. I simply object to the idea that the state (or any other entity) presenting one type of indoctrination as "the truth"-- when in fact there can be no such determination. Hence I tend to object to any heavy-handed approaches like the original post, where one type of indoctrination is replaced by another wholesale and it is presumed that by doing so moral advancement has been achieved. This can hardly be so when it suffers from exactly the same problem that supposedly precipitated the previous system's removal (that it "indoctrinates"). As free individuals we shouldn't have to deal with that sort of thing.

In this case there is probably something else which makes the offending system unappealing. For example, if you're not religious you're unlikely to think much of religious explanations. But there are plenty of other ways to argue against raising children religiously than that there is some type of indoctrination going on.
I'm not suggesting that 'good' indoctrination instills morality x and 'bad' indoctrination instills morality y. What I asked was who decides whether either x or y is harmful to the child given the intensity or method of indoctrination.



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I'm not suggesting that 'good' indoctrination instills morality x and 'bad' indoctrination instills morality y. What I asked was who decides whether either x or y is harmful to the child given the intensity or method of indoctrination.
Since there's no single overarching moral narrative that people agree to, various incommensurable values obtained from different moral systems can be used to justify different positions. For example, the idea that harm must be minimized could lead some people to say that any actions which may lead to depression are crimes. Others who value autonomy more will be more inclined to allow some harms but not others. This is what in fact happens, with parents being considered competent to raise their children unless they commit some fairly serious violation of our expectations. The fact that no one is capable of winning an argument on this one way or another should surprise no one who has paid any attention to abortion debates before. Approaching a debate from different premises will always lead to different conclusions.

I personally believe that parents are generally capable of raising their children without having anyone interfere. There are certain actions which are unacceptable (like training children to violate the law) but causing psychological trauma through teaching people religion doesn't seem like it is all that harmful given everyone I know who was raised religious-- at least not harmful enough to justify violating everyone's personal liberty wholesale. I experienced that "trauma" myself but anyone who rearranges their belief systems will experience the same thing. This is usually called growing up.

Maybe everyone should be forced to keep believing what they started out with and thus prevent harm that way.


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All that is to point out, that as an atheist its meaningless for you to moan about "Religious Doctrination" being a form of child abuse, given that you have no rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong.
I'm sorry, but it seems to me you're one of those people who instigate that there would be no morals without religion... my rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong is, well, common sense. And I know you can counter that with some clever Einstein quotes or pseudo-intellectual pretentious philosophical terms, but I think it's extremely ignorant to assume a person is void of any decency without religion.

And yes I'm aware that you will probably accuse me of misinterpreting your words, but the fact is there's a clear divide between people in this thread;

those who are religious and cling to whichever denomination they've chosen or been chosen for by their parents, and those who see past the bull**** and can actually look at this issue without any (for example) christian bias.

Therefore, I don't think this discussion will lead anywhere, just a bunch of words thrown at each other.

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...there's a clear divide between people in this thread;

those who are religious and cling to whichever denomination they've chosen or been chosen for by their parents, and those who see past the bull**** and can actually look at this issue without any (for example) christian bias.
No, there's a clear divide between people who believe all religion is inherently wrong and therefore bad, and those who see past the BS and acknowledge that there may be a god and that we cannot say for certain that such teaching is wrong.

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Therefore, I don't think this discussion will lead anywhere, just a bunch of words thrown at each other.
And yet you posted here.


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I'm sorry, but it seems to me you're one of those people who instigate that there would be no morals without religion... my rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong is, well, common sense. And I know you can counter that with some clever Einstein quotes or pseudo-intellectual pretentious philosophical terms, but I think it's extremely ignorant to assume a person is void of any decency without religion.

And yes I'm aware that you will probably accuse me of misinterpreting your words, but the fact is there's a clear divide between people in this thread;

those who are religious and cling to whichever denomination they've chosen or been chosen for by their parents, and those who see past the bull**** and can actually look at this issue without any (for example) christian bias.

Therefore, I don't think this discussion will lead anywhere, just a bunch of words thrown at each other.
I'd also like to point out that religion and/or faith doesn't necessarily dictate a moral code, for example, Kierkegaard's views on Abraham and a teleological suspension of the ethical demonstrates that faith can be downright immoral.




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I'm sorry, but it seems to me you're one of those people who instigate that there would be no morals without religion... my rational explanation as to why child abuse is wrong is, well, common sense. And I know you can counter that with some clever Einstein quotes or pseudo-intellectual pretentious philosophical terms, but I think it's extremely ignorant to assume a person is void of any decency without religion.

And yes I'm aware that you will probably accuse me of misinterpreting your words, but the fact is there's a clear divide between people in this thread;

those who are religious and cling to whichever denomination they've chosen or been chosen for by their parents, and those who see past the bull**** and can actually look at this issue without any (for example) christian bias.

Therefore, I don't think this discussion will lead anywhere, just a bunch of words thrown at each other.
And to me, his point suggests an inability to perceive of a morality based on anything beyond fear of punishment, which is hardly morality at all, and more just greedy self-preservation without regard for others. Without this fear, any reason to behave is also gone. But, in place of fear, morality should be based on empathy and an understanding of the external ramifications of any immoral or unethical act.

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And to me, his point suggests an inability to perceive of a morality based on anything beyond fear of punishment, which is hardly morality at all, and more just greedy self-preservation without regard for others. Without this fear, any reason to behave is also gone. But, in place of fear, morality should be based on empathy and an understanding of the external ramifications of any immoral or unethical act.
So how is that any different from a morality based on religion? Religion offers rewards for obeying certain rules and punishment for those who don't comply.



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So how is that any different from a morality based on religion? Religion offers rewards for obeying certain rules and punishment for those who don't comply.
It isn't. That's my point. I was referring to J7's post, which as an atheist with a good sense of right and wrong, I have to disagree with. I don't concern myself with how I might be punished or rewarded for what I do. What I concern myself with is how my actions affect others.

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there's a clear divide between people in this thread;

those who are religious and cling to whichever denomination they've chosen or been chosen for by their parents, and those who see past the bull**** and can actually look at this issue without any (for example) christian bias.

Therefore, I don't think this discussion will lead anywhere, just a bunch of words thrown at each other.
Probably the right conclusion (though that's pretty much the nature of any internet debate).

However, do you seriously not see the irony in criticizing 'bias' when you're dividing the thread between people 'clinging' to beliefs that don't align with yours, and those who 'see past the bull****' (agree with you).

I'm not even saying you're wrong, just saying that everyone should admit that they're biased as **** when it comes to morality. Despite the fact that the philosophy portion of my PPE degree convinced me that there is no objective, universal code of morality, I'm perfectly happy to live by my subjective moral code, and convince/force others to follow it to the best of my ability. I just acknowledge that I'm arrogant, biased, and have no universally acceptable 'right' to do so.


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Yes, I believe that indoctrination of children is abuse, be it religious indoctrination by parents or conformist indoctrination by the "education" system.

Both are equally destructive.


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Yeah, you're correct that nobody can disprove a god's existence per se, but my point was that religion is the only field of study that I can think of where people can believe really crazy **** without any need to have positive proof for their beliefs.

Teaching your children to think without logic or reason seems abusive to me.


What is so abusive about having faith in something, while living in/on a world of pain and suffering like this? Having a belief in something outside the norm, gives some individuals a ray of hope in their lives who want it. To totally deny them mentally of any religious thoughts or beliefs is just as abusive to me. And besides you may introduce a child to a religious or spiritual belief until adulthood, or until they are able to make decisions on their own, but once a child reaches the ability to think on their own, it doesn't matter what a child's parents has taught them over the years. Because the child eventually picks or makes a choice in what he or she wants to believe in, there are also outside world influence that plays a part in that individuals thoughts as well.

So no one on this planet can really force an individual deep down in their own mind to believe in anything that the individual doesn't want to believe in, as long as that individual has doubts in the back of his/her mind. Not even through verbal threats of hellfire and brimstone. I've seen many individuals here on LF and in real life who have demonstrated perfect examples of this. Some were told by their parents they should believe in this or that concerning their family's religion, but later rebuked those beliefs as soon as they felt they were old enough to separate from their parents and make their own decisions concerning what part of any religion pertained to them.

I never heard anybody say they were abused by their parents mentally, because their parents tryed to teach them about the morals of religion. Of course if they were physically abused by the parent because the child said he/she didn't believe in a god or rebuked the family religion, that is definitly child abuse.

If we are to consider teaching a child about the morals of religion and it's consequences because it's not obeyed as abusive, then we should consider teaching a child about public rules, saftey and laws that are not obeyed and the consequences from it as abusive as well. A influential threat is a threat, whether it's real or unreal, regardless of what it may pertain to.


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Come on Tot, I know you aren't a fan of climate change, but unlike a religious belief it's something that (at least in principle) can be disproven. You know the drill, theory gets made, people try to disprove it (as science can never prove), theory is modified/replaced by a new one, people try to disprove it etc. This is somewhat different from a religious belief which by default can't be disproven.


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