Well, here is what i want:
Difficulty reduced severely (on easy for us noobs. lol)
Custom Game (Where you can set both sides to start with a single planet with no defences of any kind and have random events in it too)
AI Balancing (The AI seems to know what i attack with because the defenses are all set to counter my units, i could attack with full tanks and their defenses will ALL be anti-tanks and if i attack with full infantry and rocket-infantry, ALL the defenses will be geared towards defeating my Soldiers)
I would be happy with just these three things done.